life meaning

“Life meaning is always a derivative phenomenon that materializes when we have transcended ourselves, when we have forgotten ourselves and become absorbed in someone (or something) outside ourselves.” Irvin Yalom

August 2021

He Did it!

There aren’t enough words to describe the hard work this fella put into his remote learning. He woke up, knew the routine, and did a year and a half of remote learning for his annoying mom with minimal protest.


Terrified I would not help him academically, with the help of Team Mac educators and therapist, we persevered.

You did it!

Through remotely learning, Mac has mastered independently using a calculator for math, including word problems. He has mastered screenshots of documents, saving files, and a host of other computing skills.

Thank you, Mrs. Reagle. You are a masterclass in remote teaching.

For parents of special needs students on the spectrum, this was hard. But I wouldn’t take away this opportunity to work with Mac and directly collaborate with his team to hone his skills and IEP goals. This experience has truly made this parent a part of Team Mac.

#reagleroom #jessicasdanceacademy

Parent Bucket List Item

I have been in a darkroom since high school. One of my favorite places I rarely used in today’s digital age. I was fortunate to pull out my gear for Mac’s weekly vocation assignment, photographer.

Sharing this experience with him was a parent bucket list item for me.

Mac in the darkroom with Mom.

Remote Learning Vocations Sonnier Style

Mac has been a trooper as we reach one year of remote learning. We have done our best to make his weekly vocations a real-life experience. Keys to being successful with remote learning on the spectrum: Keep it Fun and CONSISTENCY, CONSISTENCY, CONSISTENCY.

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Inequality in Mental Health

I am speaking out about this because I want people engrossed in popular culture to make an observation of how differently men and women with mental health disorders are treated.

Remember 2007 when Britney Spears hit her bottom? She was taken into custody on a 5150 hold and had everything seized. She was shamed because of erratic behavior, she lost custody of her children and became a mockery. Britney was manic and was struggling with an undiagnosed mental health disorder. Sadly, it took her years to get medicated, healthy, back to entertaining, seeing her children, and doing what she loved. But through all of that, she never regained her independence or respect for her contribution to the arts because her father became her conservator. No control over her wages she rightfully earned, even 13 years later.

Now fast forward to Kanye West. A man who was deeply impacted by the trauma of a near-death accident and the death of his mother. Many would say these events triggered what has been a litany of manic episodes America has wrongly declared as “genius” in songs, fashion, and publicity. Kanye himself admits his bi-polar diagnosis and claims the medication stifles his creativity. But not once has Mr. West been taken into custody, held against his will, or been isolated from his family, children, or finances. If anything, his mania has been highlighted in the Oval Office and now on his own campaign trail.

See the difference?

This inequality in mental health is evident and on display today. Kanye is midst manic episodes while Britney is struggling and having attention drawn to her situation via Instagram. This may be the one time Americans wrapped up in celebrities can see for themselves the inequity of women and men with mental health disorders.